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December 28th, 2009

2009的最后一个星期。
好像又到了写总结的时候。
又一年,又一岁。
离自己的目标却似乎又远了些。
无奈。
生活的无奈。

2010
是无奈,是改变?
不再二十,
我还有那份勇气吗?

xiaowei Daily Thoughts

  1. Selina
    December 28th, 2009 at 22:55 | #1

    亲爱的,三字头的年纪意味着你能够潇洒甩开二字头的青涩和顾虑!上天帮我们选择了生身父母,我们的父母也许帮我们选择了人生最初二十年的生活方式,幸运的是,接下来我们有足够的选择空间和经济自由来决定自己的生活,包括男人,不是么?

  2. Joanna
    December 29th, 2009 at 01:32 | #2

    亲爱的,很久很久没读过你的文字,没看过你的出现,自从上次某次电话之后… 不知你最近过得怎么样呢?希望一切都好~~ 是啊,一到年底年初交际,总会有很多想法,很多感受,但是,总是很复杂,酸酸的,想写下来,却不知从何入手,最后可能慢慢地淀在心里…成长是无奈的,不过,我相信,那些代价会换来更美的,勇气一定要有,而且一定会有!! 祝福你,祝福我们~~
    你什么时候又会回来看看啊?

  3. Louislao
    December 29th, 2009 at 04:18 | #3

    离自己的目标却似乎又远了些。

    it doesnt make sens… You are supposed to be closer and closer to your destination.

  4. xiaowei
    December 29th, 2009 at 22:43 | #4

    @Selina
    还没到三字头,所以还有很多顾虑,并不潇洒。 i don’t know if i have enough space and choices to determine my life. Most of the time it feels 身不由己。And as i grow older, i feel having more responsibilities, can’t really do whatever i want like when I was 18 or 20.

  5. xiaowei
    December 29th, 2009 at 23:15 | #5

    @Joanna
    Dear, thank you for your encouragement! I was crazily busy for the past 3 months because of my new condo. I had to do everything by myself to make an empty place home. I’ve never done something like this before. 一直都想回家看看啊,就是身不由己,不知何时。i miss my dear friends home!

  6. xiaowei
    December 29th, 2009 at 23:49 | #6

    @Louislao
    It makes perfect sense. In reality, lots of people cannot do things they love doing. They’re doing what they’re doing because they have to. So if you’re not doing what you want to do, you could be going further and further away from your destination. And sometimes, it’s very hard to make a U turn.

  7. Liqin
    December 30th, 2009 at 00:11 | #7

    why 离目标却似乎又远了些?

  8. xiaowei
    December 30th, 2009 at 00:43 | #8

    @Liqin
    Not doing things that i love doing. Not getting more and more knowledge of the fields that I would love to be in. So it seems that I’m further away from my goal.

  9. Louislao
    December 30th, 2009 at 14:48 | #9

    Your argument is quite Correct!! Specially, when one’s destination is somehow like a dream.

    Ps: I used to dream to be a millionaire!!!HEHEH

  10. xixi
    April 19th, 2010 at 20:07 | #10

    現在在蒙城旅遊^^
    在搜索中…
    突然看見你的blog,很有意思,特地來留個腳印

  11. xiaowei
    April 20th, 2010 at 22:19 | #11

    Hello Xixi, thank you for your footprint here! Hope you have a wonderful time in Montreal! If you need directions, let me know :)

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